Is Ignorance a bliss????

Hello lovelies.....so its the 1st week of JUNE and there's still no sign of the rains..i await the rains,moreover i still remember last year at this point of time i was enjoying my vacations at Goa and apparently it was raining there, guyz to tell u it was my first rainy experience in Goa, and the rains there are wild,its somehow not like our Amchi Mumbai rains, but still i prefer the Mumbai rains over the Goa one's b'coz Mumbai rains suddenly give u a day off too,vich the Goa rains don't.hmm nice naa n the Mumbai ka hot hot kandha bhaji.n hot cup of cutting chai ya coffee is just the ticket..for a yummy day with the sweet smell of the mud....

ohh this is so tempting..Rains c'mmon we all await u...

So as i was talking about love,dating and all the lovely things, i have a certain confusion in mind,

Why is that, there are days and times when people just make u their center of attraction and importance and all of a sudden they just leave u aside as if u were nothing and plainly start ignoring u or avoiding u.. i hate such a feeling, may be coz am a person who doesn't like to be ignored or left out..but the Why does the person behave so? and how should one react to it.. after nearly asking few of my friends i came to a conclusion, that Tit for Tat..is the option why to show the person u care.. there they got a point,what can one call such an attitude "RELationship PolitiCS"..jinkii's.. how cum relationships consists politics!!.....sounds astonishing, but true such things do happen..but the point is what do u do when people chuck you out from their lives, its such a weird feeling,they tend to give u so much importance and suddenly they bring you down, from the sky to the earth and start ignoring and avoiding you, believe it or not its such a yuck feeling, one tends to feel so helpless, so desperate..

One fails to understand what's wrong wit people, is ignoring a bliss at that time is that the only option Y can't talking n clarifying be an option. After nearly when they cool down such people have the audacity to be arrogant and rude,then when we"the helpless harmless angel"

behave in the same manner the so called arrogant person feels ignored and comes and speaks but in this weird manner.. i cannot understand such people and really i can't even understand the unsaid..and i don't want to...

my friend Ashish told me a very true thing about people he says

"till the time u listen to them,they are happy but the time u don't they tend to show their Arrogance" ;that's a fact to which I totally agree.

But then in such a situation should one stop being friends or just let them be or just Ignore them just as they did? the Question remains unanswered...........

"They say time heals all wounds. What they forgot to add is that it leaves some nasty scars behind. And those scars are sometimes painful reminders of the past..."(says Bharti Moorjani, a frdn)

I don't want any of my relations to end coz of some ego,arrogance or as what i called it "RelaTionship PoliticS" but this doesn't mean that am gonna give in my all to such people who make me an option when i can be their priority..

SO guyz keeping this in mind i close some chapter's of my life and move on hoping never to turn back to those closed chapter's ahead.....Til then......

Ciao ragazzi sono un weekend fantastico.........!!