The LoVe FActOr II

So its gonna be the weekend,and I am having a hectic schedule coz am all at WE SCHOOL... damn Wat timing yaar pathetic in this scorching heat..and this reminds me its the last week of May and the monsoon's on its way....lovely ain't it..the rains here and so is the Romance in the Air........

Lemme continue with my concept from the Last week about LoVe,i would really wanna know how many of us would want to cheat on our respective partners, whilst being in a relationship? I dunno seriously if one gets into such a relationship wat is such a relationship called "Dating" or Wat "Time pass" I seriously am really uncomfortable of such relationships, one thing that just keeps me thinking is in such a relationship there ain't any security, then y do people tend to fall in such traps.anyways let such cases be where ever they are. I have made up my mind not to fall in situations coz its worthless isn't it? what say people..

So today is Sunday, and as usual i start my day by going to church, one my frdn asked me don't you think our Church is all superficial, i aptly answered that i don't go for superficiality,but i love going to church coz it renders me peace of mind,and moreover i feel secure, i always get a new hope as n when i go to church. That's when i realized i even love the church,and specially after mass i like to sit for a moment and look upto the altar and just pray for a minute( guyzz the altar of my church altar,is just so serene, i tell u it gives me peace of mind)

Today i saw Mr.Special after ages,but then my heart didn't skip a beat, as it did before.good for me.actually it always makes me feel sad,coz at a point of time we were such close frdns and had a possibility of getting more closer but then things fell apart gawd..i miss his advice, Wat a frdn hav i lost? but then everything that happens happens for good. i would want to add sumthing here

Its sad wen people u know become people u knew,how u can walk right past them as if they were neva a big part of ur life,N how u used to be able to talk for hours together N now u can barely look at them ...sad but true.
( said by my sweetheart frdn Sanket Salunke)

hmmm...hey i did want to mention somethings as u all know i have been going to WE SCHOOL right, i have got some famous hangouts n some yummy food for starters, Potdar ka canteen ka Chinese and their Frankie is good, then we have DP's his only thing that delights me is his masala pav n fruit beer thats totally yumm and affordable lastly i would mention the pani puri wala oppsite Matunga station excellent pani puri..mouth watering guys..ever u'all land up at Matunga..try these food haunts i assure you u'll love it....

Okk guyz its sunday and i have to rush to WE SCHOOL...and i better get going i wouldn't wanna get late...will come back till then Au revoir, bon week end !!

The LoVe FaCtOr...

THE LOVE FACTOR

hieee..its the weekend again and am back scribbling in my space.No WE SChool this sundaeeyy seems relaxing but i'm missing WE SCHOOL a lot may be considering for the fact that my WE SCHOOL days are coming to an end...hmm

LOVE, my lord,the word gives me a headache,i certainly don't know why? its not the father mother love or the brother sister love am talking about that special person wala LOVE. i don't understand but i have seen very few people who are flourishing in their love lives..lucky them...

The concept of LOVE leaves me very confused what is love to people?

I fail to understand, i have friends who are madly deeply in love. people really go out of the line for their so called.. LOVE...hmmm but cant help it... can they. For a fact i know some people who, are already in love they say and are still wanting to date someone else.surprising i don't understand people and their varied concepts of love.

In today's world is love self sacrifice or selfishness? keep wondering... i once fell in love i told u guys naa.. at the very start Mr.Special ya, but after him i don't think there is anyone else like him,wish he could understand,there may be en number of crushes or liking's or attraction's but no one can take his place.....Miss u Mr Special..
but then arises the Question? how many times does one fall in love? is liking a person or being attracted to a person is love, i don't think so but we still give importance to such people? AM a bit clueless with these random thought on the LOVE thing.....anyways i was just surfing then net and came through some interesting thoughts on LOVE..read on

Some of descriptions of love

"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."
the movie Captain Corelli's Mandolin: -St. Augustine



They do not love that do not show their love. The course of true love never did run smooth. Love is a familiar. Love is a devil. There is no evil angel but Love.
-William Shakespeare

There's nuthin called unconditional love!All r selfish man!' Gr8 realisation! Bt better l8 dat never! - Sheril Samson(a frdn)

Cry as hard as u want to..but just mak sure dat wen u stop crying,u never cry for the same reason again..... - Rupal Ruparel( a frdn)

What Is More Painful?
When a person whom u trusted Hurts u,
Or
The person whom u hurted still trusts u! - Priya Baliga( a frdn)



Go to notice there is a vast difference between these quotes but all a part of the love factor.....LOVE LOVE LOVE....keeps me thinking

Anyways i think i end up here for today will be writing more on love in the next post keep reading ..........Чао all u lovely people...mwah mwah :-)

Perils of Bitterness !!!

Hello u wonderful people out there...itz me chubby....n am back to my space..i so totally love this corner.do u know why? coz it lets me be me,it allows me to have that carefree space of my own...

Last week has been a hectic one, the latest is that there is renovation taking place in my abode..ohh gawd.I mIss my old house...3 months to go anywayz..lets keep my moaning aside..after nearly two weeks i was back to We School...i love this place,totally.coz dis place has given me a new ME.....it has given my life a new direction, new confidence,new frdnz,kewel places to hang out and certainly some new lessons of life,talking of which,i dunno y? but at the end of the year at WE SCHOOL, has made me realize certain aspects of life,may be,right or wrong,but i wish my connection or more aptly relation with WE SCHOOL may never end.i totally have had the best days of my life at WE SCHOOL and i wish they neva come to an end.WE SCHOOL m gonna miss ya lots....only a month to go...i immensely wanna thank u for giving me an opportunity to really know what i can do n what i can't..moreover i have had the most lovely people around me during this year...wow..I'll miss all of them...

As i just mentioned about the renovation at my abode, to tell you guyzz i HATE RENOVATION..coz in regard to this,all the time i hear the only word "ADJUST".i have developed a very negative attitude towards this term "ADJUST", am thinking so very negative about it..if i only meet the person who came up with this word.i would surely want to ask him what wrong did i do to him. all what my folks want me to do is adjust.all do these days is just try and keep myself busy or occupied in order to stay away from my house..which i love the most to the core..sowie house..but i want u back.....my Lord.the amount of frustration i have in relation to this renovation no one can even get a clue.i juzz feel like packing my bags n running off to the Himalayas or maybe putting myself off for adoption.called m so bugged...coz i cant think of anything positive right now..

Anyways, am i a step close 2 my new mission..that's Mission MCJ, dunn worry guys will reveal the suspense within few days,but till then i need to get through the mission with success, guyz do wish me luck,its now become very important to me too succeed,coz i need 2 prove myself to someone that too a loved one, i dunn know why do people cant understand n leave m alone,all i hear is just words like ADJUST, WASTE OF TIME, MONEY,FAILURE, IMMATURE....the world is so very materialistic, people who were meant to the my strength are letting me down....errh...why why???? but now i have made up my mind, whether one likes it or not,supports me or not i am gonna do what my heart says...

So as i keep listening to my heart, will be back next week...hope so the situations improve...n so as my patience level..too
signing off..by saying
"Y do people wanna enforce things on me?m gud evn widout their advice na?i don wanna act mature bt 'people' don worry my priorities r set! ;-)
(said by sheril a frdn)

viszlát..........

Mum's the world.....

Helloooo…all you wonderful people out there…

Happieeee..Mother's Day........2 all the Mommi's

So am back!! Again, with me, improving my writing skills. This week was quiet a happening one... with so many things happening round the corner,including Its Mommi's daeey.....this sunday. Firstly,must say, after ages I had a nice outing, of course in this killing heat? with friends and family.Moreover,recently I have made some new friends who have had quiet an impression on me..I know there will be inquisitiveness so as to who are these Friends or Friend u may say? & some would end up saying “Is she talking about me?”keep on guessing who am talking about...So these new friends or can say, this friend who I have made is very charming…. And moreover has an own style of living life and own funda's of life,this makes me think how different we people are, aren’t we?? Different in attitudes, point of views,style's of living our life's, hobbies, certainly add’s up spice to our lives…but What i fail to understand is why do such people change their minds and start avoiding people after a nice healthy conversation...Errh....what are such people thinking?anyways..

Apart from this lately, I have been following the news, the entire “Kasab episode” and finally the verdict was out with the Man being sentenced to death.I was quiet sure that he would be rewarded with the death sentence, even though late but still justice was given to all those who lost their lives in the 26/11 carnage and specially those relatives who have been all along awaiting for justice, it was a sight when the sentence for the accused was declared in public, Mumbaikar's rejoiced even though justice was delayed yet it was given...So finally a closure for many mumbaikar's as well as a closure for Mumbai's greatest terror carnage which took place, but the Question still arises,will there be more attacks like these again?? Still whatever be the answer Mumbai n Mumbaikar's are always ready to face on anything happening,in this context the recent Motormen strike of the railways..wow What a massive effect did it have? The busy stations must have been a scene,really empty as ever,but me myself being a train commuter,can really imagine the plight of people,as it is its difficult to aboard a train during daily routine and in this condition it would have been worst,doesn't it makes you think how dependent is Mumbai on the Trains and the railways, but some of us really enjoyed a day off in this chaos hmmm.. After nearly muttering about Kasab N Mumbai N Mumbai...lemme change the the topic..

so this sunday is MOTHER's Day........... :-)

Mother's, aren't they special to all of us...so what can be done to make her speacial..lemme think.. cook for them or pamper her with gifts naaaah...thats not my way i think what i should do is, just give her a nice warm hug and say Mommmiiii I LOVE YOU...happieee MOTHER"S daeeyyy...!!! that's my gift to my mommmi.....We all share a very special relationship with our Mother's dunn we!!!Same here how much so ever i call myself as Dadda's Gurl...i end up being Mumma's gurl too..and believe me I"M loving It..... My mum's the world for me..even though i have en number of fights with her, i believe she's the best! I think we all feel that for our Mom's dunn we? for me its like nobody messes wit my mum....she's my world n am her's..i think that's the thought we all possess.. So let's try and make all our mom's feel special in our every way we can...and make her proud of all of us.....Happieee..Mother's Day.....All the Mom's..U all the best!

Dedicated to all the Mom's of the world
Mother...
You filled my days with rainbow lights,
Fairy tales and sweet dream nights,
A kiss to wipe away my tears,
Gingerbread to ease my fears.
You gave the gift of life to me
And then in love, you set me free.
I thank you for your tender care,
For deep warm hugs and being there.
I hope that when you think of me
A part of you
You'll always see.....

So,hope so all of us have a wonderful weekend specially our Mom's...

Passez une bonne journée .. bye :-)

WHY !!

hiii..everyone…...its 1st MAY "jAi Maharashtra"......to all Maharashtra-ins..and also a new month start to the warm and hot month of May..hot summer days are finally on with vacations on its high peak, children enjoying holidays, people enjoying and cherishing nice Hapus Mangoes...yummy

After nearly a week am back on, writing my blog...this week was a terrible one I just had the most confusing depressing time of my life this was all due to a certain decision which I needed to take, in regard to my professional life..phew…..I never would have imagined I would ever face such a situation in life where I would be on a standpoint where I would feel so emotionally insecure, so confused, so low...all shattered away but still had hope so as to everything would be fine.

Why is it we always feel the need for that support from your loved ones, when u have just taken an important decision in life and u desire to do something different? Why is it that our loved one's fail to understand us, they fail to support us, they fail to understand in what lies our happiness? What is that thing that makes us happy? Why don't people understand us? Why do we need to answer so many people? Why do people compare us with someone else? Why can’t people let us be the way we are? Why do we need to change ourselves for someone else? all these WH Questions need to have an answer.....and somewhere am striving hard to get answers.....

Life at times seems quiet unfair to us sometimes..it’s as if all that bad is happening its happening to me wala attitude..But then I don't think it’s our fault the situation the circumstance are such that make us go negative in life....one of my very dear teacher says; that if you feel too negative "just go on a nice 15 day holiday and chillax......"

The past few days have been pretty tough, it showed me "how does it feel to fail in life, how exactly does failure taste" A learning experience though...it thought me there are very few people who support you when u are facing the most difficult phase of your life...where few people care..It just made me realize that "if there is anything good happening with you, no one even bothers to peek in your life; but when you are in a difficult phase, people from nowhere come up "asking you and criticizing you...." How easy it is for people to come up and say u have failed or u have wasted your time...its so annoying when u although more are low and all that some people do is demoralize you" how lame....can people be?????

Anyways the point is to turn a deaf ear to such people which I did too...when I know I have the potential I have the right attitude, I don’t need anybody's gyaan on what I should do or what I should have done?" Another thing which I learnt this week was, Why should I change for anyone, b'coz me changing and transforming myself is just not going to make sense I agree that at some point u need to change but Why unnecessarily change for no good or for someone who doesn’t even bother. I just realized it’s more fun being me, the way I am, my beliefs and my hatke life……WHY do I even bother I want to live my carefree, confused & complex life, I don’t want to be MS PERFECT.. Am a human and I love to make mistakes and learn from my mistakes…that’s the way I am and that’s the way I want to be……A gal..With all the complexities of life but still want to face it with all pride and the right attitude.
So before signing off …just a radom thought :
Never cHangE yoUr originaLiTy for The sakE of oThers becaUse no onE can pLay yoUr roLe beTTer Than U, sO bE yoUrseLf.
(by Rahul Nair……a new frdn)

So frdnzzzzz…enjoy your summer vacations & keep reading adeus!!!!

Rendezvous’

Hiiiiii all!!!

I think I have become an addict to my blog coz I feel I need 2 write everyday…anyways lets get back ,Today will be writing about a rendezvous with a great person..........

Any guesses who???? Okk let’s cut out the suspense, the entire day today I had a Rendezvous with none other then the Father of the Nation “MAHATMA GANDHI”.....

Not that am a massive fan of his or anything of that sort it’s just that I have an entire subject for my master’s exam on Gandhi..Personally talking am not at all a Gandhian person, but there’s something striking about the person..Frankly speaking am a complete supporter of Tilak and his ways , but somehow am quite surprised about Gandhi being a man who’s simple in thought an expression is responsible for making our country independent ,his concepts and funda’s were different from all , but what makes me think is that had he been alive today am sure he would be applaud at the scenario India’s facing right from reservation to communalism to regionalism to terrorism to IPL he would have just wondered and said I strived to get this country independent my efforts were in vain??

Really it just gets me thinking how many of us would go the Gandhian way to get things how many of us still believe in truth and non violence. Gawd had it Gandhi been alive and seen me and my non violence he would have really changed his concepts (hehehe ) ,but jokes apart the man had guts he had guts to do everything in his way to get the country free, to bring about the upliftment of the society and people at large. Again do we even really appreciate? What‘s with us today’s Gen X, has a different attitude all linked up with the corporate world? Frankly how many of us would carry out a Satyagraha for some injustice done to us or anyone else? How many of us would want to wear khadi or carry out spinning as our profession?? Sound’s impossible doesn’t it? But it was Gandhi who did the impossible..Gandhi though born in a traditional Vaishnav family, man with great modern thoughts, believer in Satya N Ahimsa, communal harmony?? My my how did he just do it.. Now I really need to learn the perseverance he had…actually we all need too..Isn’t it? He had this hatke view of almost everything from Hindu –Muslim unity to untouchability wow!!! Hardly anyone of us could have this kind of point of view?

But then I think, somewhere down the lane we have let him down, for all that we think we do, actually there are hardly people who follow him and his concepts and believe in his philosophy ,may be because its not possible with the situation around us. But why don’t we try making a difference in small ways ………..may be we can all begin with a small start…y don't we start with family n friends itself???
i think now my family n friends are going to see some changes in me in small ways..

plzzzz gharwalo n dosto dunn be surprised by the change….it’s still the same devilish meeee…..

It’s time to go….before going something which Gandhi said in regard to communal harmony; he says
“ to restore normal life the least one can do is be wholly truthful & non-violent. Then one will fear no one but God. Such are the men of courage. All parties will make friends with them and even goondas will shed their goondaism before them”….

Impressive isn’t it!!! So see u all next time with something new….till then.............. Auf Wiedersehen!!

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

hellooooooooooooooo people........
Hope we all are in pink of health...writing my second post..gawd its hard 2 decide what to write about..so many thoughts just like a MIXED BAG!!

A day or two before I happened to meet a schoolmate after ages who somehow did not acknowledge i thought to myself its “OK it happens” later again that very day i met another schoolmate (who also happened to be my bench partner) who from nowhere shouted out my name and then we started talking the regular stuff,suddenly she turned down the memory lane and surprised me by remembering all the school fun we had right from how we sat together to all my nakharas in school...she also says " i have changed" that really made me think hard "have I changed"???? and "have I changed for good or Bad"?? but then i got the answer and said to myself that whatever happens, happens for good! certain responses from friends does gets my mind ticking must say..

Lets switch the topic lets talk about friends..i have always heard that friends are the angels God has sent for us...sounds interesting doesn’t it? in this context have to say that am a huge fan of this HBO series named "SEX n THE CITY"...the series is just about 4 friends living in the city of New York with all the dazzling lights, fun, love, fashion, and promiscuity all of them with a different stories but friends forever, this to me is an inspiration of friends. Friends: very few of them stick around to the end . It just randomly came to me that its actually not about who came first or who came last its actually about who stuck up with you till the end… our life itself makes us understand the fact that who are our real friends! Are they the one’ s who royally flatter u away and just make use of you or are they the one who there for u all along even when u have a terrible bitter fight with them??? Something to think about? In regard to this it just dawned upon that friends are those people who stand by you in all circumstances, they are those who always tell you “YOU CAN DO IT” I’m very glad that I have a few special friends who are there for me whenever needed just a beck and call and they are there, they have been my greatest critics and my greatest teacher in all walks of life be it professional or personal.

In this context a very special mention which I needed to make and which most of u will agree upon is that one of our very dear n closest friends are “ our Parents” be it anything they are always there right from the beginning to the end. So I think we need to ponder upon have we ever appreciated our parents for being our best friends in spite of the fact that we don’t consider them to be one but the fact is they are????

So keeping that thought in mind & I need to get back with books!!!
Would want to conclude with few lines of the song “I’ll be there for you”
I'll be there for you
When the rain starts to pour
I'll be there for you
Like I've been there before
I'll be there for you
'Cuz you're there for me too... :-)
So keep reading n keep thinking!!!!! Ciao