Break ke Baad !!!!!!!!

Hey....space missed you!!

Back after a long time!! things going great with me a totally new life and new surroundings new friends new teacher's and new lesson's in life and a new area of interest as far the romance is concerened...

The new course rocks...new friends too..and also new subjects..As far as the past is concerned..i have successfully cleared my Welingkar's HR course..but i still miss my buddies..Dude u'll rocked big time. Now-a-days
me at home itz my last day of the small mini Diwali vacation i have been giving myself. I just love my life it has everything right from friends to a perfect course to perfect boy friend to perfect parents n perfect sweet moments in life...hope they do remain the same.

Apparently, i have changed lookwise and habit wise too i dunn no may be for good or bad for better or worse.It feels good to get back to writing in my space.

This diwali was awesome,spend my evening bursting crackers with my sweet friends tanvee,tejal and praju...
life's perfect...with few special moments n lots n lots of misunderstandings but still life's fun..N its God's grace i have a few beautiful friends...who make it more n more special for me....mwaahzz people..!!

The Present.............

Hey..all the Exam season's on for me...n am not at all in the mood of studying finally an Academic year has past ...and its time for a new venture.....

 

       So anyways, this week was my very first visit to the Dept of CJ and it was for the orientation,which took place,it was a very different feeling and its the same feeling I'm having today because tomorrow is the my first day as a student there, its like am moving a step forward in life,but at the same time its like am leaving behind Welingkar's and my group..hope I make very good friends,in fact I have made a few friends there.....Tomorrow its going to be a new beginning and a new start for a fresh academic year, with lots of toil,trauma and drama....Hope to have lots of fun...a new phase in life has begun..donot know what lies ahead, whatever it is, hope its worth it...

.New Friends New Place New things to learn..

         I'm moving on leaving the Past behind,thinking about the Present and setting forth the Future...Hope to do well..........See u guys....Sooonn.......wish me luck!!

Adieus WE SChool

Hellooozz..lovelies..hope we all doing great.......hmm so a week coming to an end..and say HELLO to the weekend....was a bit busy last week..couldn't make it..sowieee me blog.....

Anyways, this week was an eventful one, to share the big news..mission MCJ has been accomplished, i am now a Master's student for Communication & Journalism, and am happy and proud about it coz i had a very very exciting and a nerve wrecking time during the CET/GD & the PI, am just hoping that all goes well... (PLzzz Lord Jesus, be my strength & my shield).Apart from this i met a very close frdn of mine chinki this week after nearly ages, and m happy for her,coz she's found the joy of her life..after nearly a long while...
hmmm so my most interesting venture this week was the muvee SATC 2.....much awaited one,thanku mommi.... BANDH day....superb. So last week was a pretty interstin one.....i nearly had a showdown wit a so called frdn...i really hate it wen things turn ugly......but then..good it happened.actually the major showdown is still pending.....hmmm i await the right moment....hmm i donot wish to behave like sum people so chuck!! As me frdn Sachin n CArl..say.."ignore..Lavi"..n so" I do..."..


my Grp V m gonna miss u guyzzzz choo muchhh.......

Coming back to the point,its just a bit difficult to deal with such kinda ppl, it juzt annoys me,coz ppl go on accusing things in public and call it silent games, i certainly give a heck to such games..Last sunday, I was so nostalgic, being my last presentation, n i would be missing all my dearlies....but this person has pissed me off so bad itz lyk i hate her to the core,and I do not wanna go back to WE SCHOOL but that's certainly not me. I cant act as lame as her,but still just coz of a person i cant hate all my moments i shared at We School...dats bad on my part...n m not gonna do that........I miss We School..and today's my last lec,so, i decided i would go, to bid Adieus...to all my frdnz n specially "we school". The place has brought out the best in me,i have met the most wonderful people here as well as superb teachers,i dunn want a person to spoil the fun..yaa....N i wont let that happen........So an end of an academic year...N a new start with the MCJ thing,new frdnz,new teachers, hope itz gonna be fun....Gonna mIss you guyzzzzz..... a lot....

Ye Meri Life Hain!!

Hey all..its a fab start for a sunday,early morning mass,meeting up with frdnz..perfect start!!

Hmmm itz gonna be my last sundaey at WE SCHOOL next sunday and my fresh Start at the University wit my PG course in Communication and Journalism.....meeting new frdnz, a new start, to tell u the truth i cant still digest the fact that i juz got through,i took me a CET exam, a Dassuu GD and a fadoo PI to get there, but it was juzt worth it....i'm kinda nervous,but the place gave me +ve vibes hmmm, finally sumthing i wanted to do,since childhood, is cuming true....
Recently,whilst the reading the newspaper,i came across about the death of a supermodel,caused due to failures in relationships,what i dunn understand is? why do people decide to give their lives up!!

"Why do we make someone else our first Priority,when we tend to be an Option" cant figure out, before giving up our lives why don't we analyze what we are missing, our families, our parents, our friends! why don't we tend to see the brighter side of our lives rather then analyzing the darker side.why don't we look down the memory lane...and see for ourselves for once,why do we lose our innocence our cuteness as time passes by, why do we tend to get lost in this materialistic world....

I just realized it, few days ago,that rather then caring and expecting things from a third person,why don't i start caring and expecting things from myself? I just thought rather then wasting my time on some Loser, Jerk..i spend that time on me,for me,for myself and my frndz N family? rather than living for someone else,its most beneficial to start living for our near and dear one's? haan this struck and then i realized, i love my carefree life,my freedom, my cuteness, my innocence, Ye Meri Life Hain...i decide the rules for myself...

After lost of thinking and pondering,i got through some piccha's and wanted to share it with u guyzz..

That's life.........given to us, why do we tend to waste it itzz precious HAndLe wiTh CaRe.....

That's the carefree spirit we all possess,how can we..let it go,in fact why do we let it go!!!

That's the innocence,which we possess,why let it go....why do we allow a third person to come and change things for us.....life may be full of hurdles and uncertainties, but we know we shall over come...then why waste life..itz precious,why allow someone else,to take us granted for why???

Boss, we all need to understand a fact that Ye Meri life hain, mujhe jeene DO!!!.....i Choose the path to my life...my life my lesson's....
anywayzzzz.....
hanno un weekend fantastico .. mwah mwah .. godersi la vita ....

Daddy's DAy...

Bonjour!...itz a lazy sunday afternoon and am at home no WE SCHOOL..2day...am bored,but the special thing is that itz FATHER's DAy today.....actually Father's Day is not so celebrated on a large scale as compared to Mother's DaY...i wonder why?

FAthEr,DaD,PappA,BabbA,AppA,ABbA...n i call DAdA...sounds familiar aint it....dats what we all call our father's, one of a strong pillar's of our lives,and infact one of the strngest pillar's of my life,my shield,my guide,my teacher....without our Father's our lives are incomplete, i more prefer to be a DADa's Gurl rather than being Mumma's Gurl..i dunn no the bond which i share with my dada is more stronger then wat i share with my Mum...maybe coz deir a saying that girls are closer to their dad's??? hmmm.but still i LOve my DadA....its like any problem anywhere,about anything,my first thought is "DAdA"....he's on my speed dial....gawd be it anywhere whether he's at work in Mumbai or Abroad...itz DAdA....he's like a link between my Mumma and Me......i may fight with my MOm...en number of times,but never with DadA..I still remember times,when my DadA used to wait for me when i used to go to SChool, i still am a small baby for him,i still love him cooking my fav breakfast for me and lunch and dinner.I love him for the space he gives me, my DadA has been a kinda lucky charm for me.. in watever i do, i tell him....in that context i have the kwelest DadA....but then now at times i realize things have changed n am all young and bold and heading to live my life..but then i know.he'll be there whenever i want him....i alwayz feel my Dada is like George Banks from "FAther Of the Bride"hmm.......errrhh i wonder what would i do without him??..actually speaking we all are sailing in the same boat...aren't we?...
So a dedication to all the FATher"s ..........

Happy Father's Day

A Dad is a person
who is loving and kind,
And often he knows
what you have on your mind.
He's someone who listens,
suggests, and defends.
A dad can be one
of your very best friends!
He's proud of your triumphs,
but when things go wrong,
A dad can be patient
and helpful and strong
In all that you do,
a dad's love plays a part.
There's always a place for him
deep in your heart.
And each year that passes,
you're even more glad,
More grateful and proud
just to call him your dad!
Thank you, Dad...
for listening and caring,
for giving and sharing,
but, especially, for just being you!
Happy Father's Day - Anonymous

See u soon byee .. Buon weekend

Live Life Kingsize............

hey all!.hope u all doing well and enjoying the rains,the climate's changed isn't it.I suddenly fall short of words today i dunn know what to write on,so i decided lets write about some people who have just been there,frdnz who have taught me to LIvE lyf King siZE.......Some of u may find your name's inclusive...

Some of the people i have just known for a while but,they are some of my best frdnz now,it's strange how come some people understand you so well surprising?? People who am gonna mention are some of my frdnz i made at the university, the only two people am gonna miss is Kimberley n Sneha (chinki) the only people, who could understand me n are gonna be all by my side forever......then we I have this frdn of mine Sanket, who i have known for nearly 3 -4 years never spoken but too,suddenly we are now best of buddies who can rely on each other..sanket is the biggest baccha on this Earth(he's gonna kill me wen he reads this) but still..he's the cutest...n m the biggest NaUtaNki in accordance to him, and the same goes to Sachin who also thinks the same,but he doesn't agree on the statement that I'm a Nut(dis is wat i call myself) but there is someone who agrees to this statement is Carl.....who later says he's kidding.....i consider him adorable,N he doesn't...lolzz...all these guyz are the few among the sweetest people i must have met on this selfish place called EArtH.. A mention here must be made about Ashish.B frm UK he's a guy who's intellectual,but too much nautanki,but he's cute,he's forever online.....n vil listen to my problems n den laugh's on it...gadhaa..par kya kare...he's my cutest frdn.....
hmm...from among the oldest and the rarest is my frdn Aasha...she's a gem of a frdn,who still hasn't changed....gawd..its said that frdnz r siblings God has forgotten to give this statement is so very true..specially in case of a few inclusive of my bestest frdnzz Ani, Tanvi,Willu,Niku, and how can i ever forget my TY..college grp as well as my WE School GrP.uru,archu,sush,sunita,simran,vasu,diana....they have been a part of my life and vil alwayz remain......they have given me memories,which i may neva forget....

This year my life may have changed a lot,I may have lost a lot of frdnz......but i have met so many people who have made me a part of their lives...thank u i may have missed few names,but i thank them all...for being there when none stood by..specially during the worst days i have seen this year.....These are people who have been Angels in disguise of Friends to me...who have taught me to "LivE LIfe KinGsIzE..........."

Byee bientôt..............mwah mwah...luv u guyzz u rock!!!

MiXeD BaG..............

Hello People...So it's me back to my space,so last Sunday at We School,was a fun-filled one, i think we had the old spark back in class,the boring lecture and the Masti-filled WE..and along with it was the 1st rains...so pretty was the place....as it is the entire campus of WE SCHOOL is lush green...and the Rains even made it look more beautiful..

So this week was quiet interesting the reason behind it is, lately i have been doing a lot of things for starter's i'm done reading the novel P.S I Love You...and am back to my reading habit..I'm trying to get hold of a book called "Oh Shit Not Again"..by Mandar Kokate...i dunn know but i think its the name that's given me a urge to read it.So as i was saying i've read
P.S I Love You...and apparently i saw the movie too..but the Novel had much more impact specially the notes written by Gerry to Holly ,but must say I 'm in Love with Gerry,I was just telling a frdn...i wish there really existed a Gerry ya..who would end up writing notes for me too.....the frdn replies High Hopes chubby...and there goes my hope down the drain...lolzz.

Anywayz apart from that, I dared to watch a Hindi flick called "Rajneeti" I was pretty impressed..it was quiet a combination of Reel N Real life politics..but the only thing which i couldn't follow is, after nearly,every half an hour of the movie someone was killed, at a point of time i was expecting everyone in the movie dead,but there were few of them alive...Thanku Mr.Director. Also,few of the roles played were amazing..Nana Patekar was fab in the movie and so was Ranbir Kapoor, the movie was a bit long but a good storyline, and along with it ,the day was accompanied by the Rain..finally i enjoyed the Rains...with a topping of two Rainbows...wow what a combination...So the Rain has now become almost a regular visitor for me..I'm just awaiting for the day when am done with my house renovation ya...one thing which i religiously follow every rainy season is sit near by my window with a Mug of hot Coffee in the evening's with the rain as a company and just look out....I love to just lazy around that time....and mostly we all love to do that..isn't it?

So itz friday, and as usual the weekend's approaching,i have this certain excitement for the weekend and as usual is nothing else but WE SCHOOL, so this Sat N Sun daeyyy i'm at WE and its my second last presentation for the course, luckily the presentation is in the morning itself so the entire day is gonna be fun filled for sure, somehow the urge for presenting has almost vanished.. dunn know why? but no enthusiasm at all.. but kya kare.? Paappi InteRNals ka sawaal hain yaar.!!!...so anyways i recently came across some lines which just sank through me and I'd like to share it with u guyzz too it says;

"Never Make someone your everything coz when they are goNe U are LeFt wiTh NoThinG"( read somewhere by Me)

So True Naa..... So guyz will be back soon..u guyz "un week-end somme impressionnante"

Till i need to focus on my presentation N wish me Luck........

Is Ignorance a bliss????

Hello lovelies.....so its the 1st week of JUNE and there's still no sign of the rains..i await the rains,moreover i still remember last year at this point of time i was enjoying my vacations at Goa and apparently it was raining there, guyz to tell u it was my first rainy experience in Goa, and the rains there are wild,its somehow not like our Amchi Mumbai rains, but still i prefer the Mumbai rains over the Goa one's b'coz Mumbai rains suddenly give u a day off too,vich the Goa rains don't.hmm nice naa n the Mumbai ka hot hot kandha bhaji.n hot cup of cutting chai ya coffee is just the ticket..for a yummy day with the sweet smell of the mud....

ohh this is so tempting..Rains c'mmon we all await u...

So as i was talking about love,dating and all the lovely things, i have a certain confusion in mind,

Why is that, there are days and times when people just make u their center of attraction and importance and all of a sudden they just leave u aside as if u were nothing and plainly start ignoring u or avoiding u.. i hate such a feeling, may be coz am a person who doesn't like to be ignored or left out..but the Why does the person behave so? and how should one react to it.. after nearly asking few of my friends i came to a conclusion, that Tit for Tat..is the option why to show the person u care.. there they got a point,what can one call such an attitude "RELationship PolitiCS"..jinkii's.. how cum relationships consists politics!!.....sounds astonishing, but true such things do happen..but the point is what do u do when people chuck you out from their lives, its such a weird feeling,they tend to give u so much importance and suddenly they bring you down, from the sky to the earth and start ignoring and avoiding you, believe it or not its such a yuck feeling, one tends to feel so helpless, so desperate..

One fails to understand what's wrong wit people, is ignoring a bliss at that time is that the only option Y can't talking n clarifying be an option. After nearly when they cool down such people have the audacity to be arrogant and rude,then when we"the helpless harmless angel"

behave in the same manner the so called arrogant person feels ignored and comes and speaks but in this weird manner.. i cannot understand such people and really i can't even understand the unsaid..and i don't want to...

my friend Ashish told me a very true thing about people he says

"till the time u listen to them,they are happy but the time u don't they tend to show their Arrogance" ;that's a fact to which I totally agree.

But then in such a situation should one stop being friends or just let them be or just Ignore them just as they did? the Question remains unanswered...........

"They say time heals all wounds. What they forgot to add is that it leaves some nasty scars behind. And those scars are sometimes painful reminders of the past..."(says Bharti Moorjani, a frdn)

I don't want any of my relations to end coz of some ego,arrogance or as what i called it "RelaTionship PoliticS" but this doesn't mean that am gonna give in my all to such people who make me an option when i can be their priority..

SO guyz keeping this in mind i close some chapter's of my life and move on hoping never to turn back to those closed chapter's ahead.....Til then......

Ciao ragazzi sono un weekend fantastico.........!!

The LoVe FActOr II

So its gonna be the weekend,and I am having a hectic schedule coz am all at WE SCHOOL... damn Wat timing yaar pathetic in this scorching heat..and this reminds me its the last week of May and the monsoon's on its way....lovely ain't it..the rains here and so is the Romance in the Air........

Lemme continue with my concept from the Last week about LoVe,i would really wanna know how many of us would want to cheat on our respective partners, whilst being in a relationship? I dunno seriously if one gets into such a relationship wat is such a relationship called "Dating" or Wat "Time pass" I seriously am really uncomfortable of such relationships, one thing that just keeps me thinking is in such a relationship there ain't any security, then y do people tend to fall in such traps.anyways let such cases be where ever they are. I have made up my mind not to fall in situations coz its worthless isn't it? what say people..

So today is Sunday, and as usual i start my day by going to church, one my frdn asked me don't you think our Church is all superficial, i aptly answered that i don't go for superficiality,but i love going to church coz it renders me peace of mind,and moreover i feel secure, i always get a new hope as n when i go to church. That's when i realized i even love the church,and specially after mass i like to sit for a moment and look upto the altar and just pray for a minute( guyzz the altar of my church altar,is just so serene, i tell u it gives me peace of mind)

Today i saw Mr.Special after ages,but then my heart didn't skip a beat, as it did before.good for me.actually it always makes me feel sad,coz at a point of time we were such close frdns and had a possibility of getting more closer but then things fell apart gawd..i miss his advice, Wat a frdn hav i lost? but then everything that happens happens for good. i would want to add sumthing here

Its sad wen people u know become people u knew,how u can walk right past them as if they were neva a big part of ur life,N how u used to be able to talk for hours together N now u can barely look at them ...sad but true.
( said by my sweetheart frdn Sanket Salunke)

hmmm...hey i did want to mention somethings as u all know i have been going to WE SCHOOL right, i have got some famous hangouts n some yummy food for starters, Potdar ka canteen ka Chinese and their Frankie is good, then we have DP's his only thing that delights me is his masala pav n fruit beer thats totally yumm and affordable lastly i would mention the pani puri wala oppsite Matunga station excellent pani puri..mouth watering guys..ever u'all land up at Matunga..try these food haunts i assure you u'll love it....

Okk guyz its sunday and i have to rush to WE SCHOOL...and i better get going i wouldn't wanna get late...will come back till then Au revoir, bon week end !!

The LoVe FaCtOr...

THE LOVE FACTOR

hieee..its the weekend again and am back scribbling in my space.No WE SChool this sundaeeyy seems relaxing but i'm missing WE SCHOOL a lot may be considering for the fact that my WE SCHOOL days are coming to an end...hmm

LOVE, my lord,the word gives me a headache,i certainly don't know why? its not the father mother love or the brother sister love am talking about that special person wala LOVE. i don't understand but i have seen very few people who are flourishing in their love lives..lucky them...

The concept of LOVE leaves me very confused what is love to people?

I fail to understand, i have friends who are madly deeply in love. people really go out of the line for their so called.. LOVE...hmmm but cant help it... can they. For a fact i know some people who, are already in love they say and are still wanting to date someone else.surprising i don't understand people and their varied concepts of love.

In today's world is love self sacrifice or selfishness? keep wondering... i once fell in love i told u guys naa.. at the very start Mr.Special ya, but after him i don't think there is anyone else like him,wish he could understand,there may be en number of crushes or liking's or attraction's but no one can take his place.....Miss u Mr Special..
but then arises the Question? how many times does one fall in love? is liking a person or being attracted to a person is love, i don't think so but we still give importance to such people? AM a bit clueless with these random thought on the LOVE thing.....anyways i was just surfing then net and came through some interesting thoughts on LOVE..read on

Some of descriptions of love

"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."
the movie Captain Corelli's Mandolin: -St. Augustine



They do not love that do not show their love. The course of true love never did run smooth. Love is a familiar. Love is a devil. There is no evil angel but Love.
-William Shakespeare

There's nuthin called unconditional love!All r selfish man!' Gr8 realisation! Bt better l8 dat never! - Sheril Samson(a frdn)

Cry as hard as u want to..but just mak sure dat wen u stop crying,u never cry for the same reason again..... - Rupal Ruparel( a frdn)

What Is More Painful?
When a person whom u trusted Hurts u,
Or
The person whom u hurted still trusts u! - Priya Baliga( a frdn)



Go to notice there is a vast difference between these quotes but all a part of the love factor.....LOVE LOVE LOVE....keeps me thinking

Anyways i think i end up here for today will be writing more on love in the next post keep reading ..........Чао all u lovely people...mwah mwah :-)

Perils of Bitterness !!!

Hello u wonderful people out there...itz me chubby....n am back to my space..i so totally love this corner.do u know why? coz it lets me be me,it allows me to have that carefree space of my own...

Last week has been a hectic one, the latest is that there is renovation taking place in my abode..ohh gawd.I mIss my old house...3 months to go anywayz..lets keep my moaning aside..after nearly two weeks i was back to We School...i love this place,totally.coz dis place has given me a new ME.....it has given my life a new direction, new confidence,new frdnz,kewel places to hang out and certainly some new lessons of life,talking of which,i dunno y? but at the end of the year at WE SCHOOL, has made me realize certain aspects of life,may be,right or wrong,but i wish my connection or more aptly relation with WE SCHOOL may never end.i totally have had the best days of my life at WE SCHOOL and i wish they neva come to an end.WE SCHOOL m gonna miss ya lots....only a month to go...i immensely wanna thank u for giving me an opportunity to really know what i can do n what i can't..moreover i have had the most lovely people around me during this year...wow..I'll miss all of them...

As i just mentioned about the renovation at my abode, to tell you guyzz i HATE RENOVATION..coz in regard to this,all the time i hear the only word "ADJUST".i have developed a very negative attitude towards this term "ADJUST", am thinking so very negative about it..if i only meet the person who came up with this word.i would surely want to ask him what wrong did i do to him. all what my folks want me to do is adjust.all do these days is just try and keep myself busy or occupied in order to stay away from my house..which i love the most to the core..sowie house..but i want u back.....my Lord.the amount of frustration i have in relation to this renovation no one can even get a clue.i juzz feel like packing my bags n running off to the Himalayas or maybe putting myself off for adoption.called m so bugged...coz i cant think of anything positive right now..

Anyways, am i a step close 2 my new mission..that's Mission MCJ, dunn worry guys will reveal the suspense within few days,but till then i need to get through the mission with success, guyz do wish me luck,its now become very important to me too succeed,coz i need 2 prove myself to someone that too a loved one, i dunn know why do people cant understand n leave m alone,all i hear is just words like ADJUST, WASTE OF TIME, MONEY,FAILURE, IMMATURE....the world is so very materialistic, people who were meant to the my strength are letting me down....errh...why why???? but now i have made up my mind, whether one likes it or not,supports me or not i am gonna do what my heart says...

So as i keep listening to my heart, will be back next week...hope so the situations improve...n so as my patience level..too
signing off..by saying
"Y do people wanna enforce things on me?m gud evn widout their advice na?i don wanna act mature bt 'people' don worry my priorities r set! ;-)
(said by sheril a frdn)

viszlát..........

Mum's the world.....

Helloooo…all you wonderful people out there…

Happieeee..Mother's Day........2 all the Mommi's

So am back!! Again, with me, improving my writing skills. This week was quiet a happening one... with so many things happening round the corner,including Its Mommi's daeey.....this sunday. Firstly,must say, after ages I had a nice outing, of course in this killing heat? with friends and family.Moreover,recently I have made some new friends who have had quiet an impression on me..I know there will be inquisitiveness so as to who are these Friends or Friend u may say? & some would end up saying “Is she talking about me?”keep on guessing who am talking about...So these new friends or can say, this friend who I have made is very charming…. And moreover has an own style of living life and own funda's of life,this makes me think how different we people are, aren’t we?? Different in attitudes, point of views,style's of living our life's, hobbies, certainly add’s up spice to our lives…but What i fail to understand is why do such people change their minds and start avoiding people after a nice healthy conversation...Errh....what are such people thinking?anyways..

Apart from this lately, I have been following the news, the entire “Kasab episode” and finally the verdict was out with the Man being sentenced to death.I was quiet sure that he would be rewarded with the death sentence, even though late but still justice was given to all those who lost their lives in the 26/11 carnage and specially those relatives who have been all along awaiting for justice, it was a sight when the sentence for the accused was declared in public, Mumbaikar's rejoiced even though justice was delayed yet it was given...So finally a closure for many mumbaikar's as well as a closure for Mumbai's greatest terror carnage which took place, but the Question still arises,will there be more attacks like these again?? Still whatever be the answer Mumbai n Mumbaikar's are always ready to face on anything happening,in this context the recent Motormen strike of the railways..wow What a massive effect did it have? The busy stations must have been a scene,really empty as ever,but me myself being a train commuter,can really imagine the plight of people,as it is its difficult to aboard a train during daily routine and in this condition it would have been worst,doesn't it makes you think how dependent is Mumbai on the Trains and the railways, but some of us really enjoyed a day off in this chaos hmmm.. After nearly muttering about Kasab N Mumbai N Mumbai...lemme change the the topic..

so this sunday is MOTHER's Day........... :-)

Mother's, aren't they special to all of us...so what can be done to make her speacial..lemme think.. cook for them or pamper her with gifts naaaah...thats not my way i think what i should do is, just give her a nice warm hug and say Mommmiiii I LOVE YOU...happieee MOTHER"S daeeyyy...!!! that's my gift to my mommmi.....We all share a very special relationship with our Mother's dunn we!!!Same here how much so ever i call myself as Dadda's Gurl...i end up being Mumma's gurl too..and believe me I"M loving It..... My mum's the world for me..even though i have en number of fights with her, i believe she's the best! I think we all feel that for our Mom's dunn we? for me its like nobody messes wit my mum....she's my world n am her's..i think that's the thought we all possess.. So let's try and make all our mom's feel special in our every way we can...and make her proud of all of us.....Happieee..Mother's Day.....All the Mom's..U all the best!

Dedicated to all the Mom's of the world
Mother...
You filled my days with rainbow lights,
Fairy tales and sweet dream nights,
A kiss to wipe away my tears,
Gingerbread to ease my fears.
You gave the gift of life to me
And then in love, you set me free.
I thank you for your tender care,
For deep warm hugs and being there.
I hope that when you think of me
A part of you
You'll always see.....

So,hope so all of us have a wonderful weekend specially our Mom's...

Passez une bonne journée .. bye :-)

WHY !!

hiii..everyone…...its 1st MAY "jAi Maharashtra"......to all Maharashtra-ins..and also a new month start to the warm and hot month of May..hot summer days are finally on with vacations on its high peak, children enjoying holidays, people enjoying and cherishing nice Hapus Mangoes...yummy

After nearly a week am back on, writing my blog...this week was a terrible one I just had the most confusing depressing time of my life this was all due to a certain decision which I needed to take, in regard to my professional life..phew…..I never would have imagined I would ever face such a situation in life where I would be on a standpoint where I would feel so emotionally insecure, so confused, so low...all shattered away but still had hope so as to everything would be fine.

Why is it we always feel the need for that support from your loved ones, when u have just taken an important decision in life and u desire to do something different? Why is it that our loved one's fail to understand us, they fail to support us, they fail to understand in what lies our happiness? What is that thing that makes us happy? Why don't people understand us? Why do we need to answer so many people? Why do people compare us with someone else? Why can’t people let us be the way we are? Why do we need to change ourselves for someone else? all these WH Questions need to have an answer.....and somewhere am striving hard to get answers.....

Life at times seems quiet unfair to us sometimes..it’s as if all that bad is happening its happening to me wala attitude..But then I don't think it’s our fault the situation the circumstance are such that make us go negative in life....one of my very dear teacher says; that if you feel too negative "just go on a nice 15 day holiday and chillax......"

The past few days have been pretty tough, it showed me "how does it feel to fail in life, how exactly does failure taste" A learning experience though...it thought me there are very few people who support you when u are facing the most difficult phase of your life...where few people care..It just made me realize that "if there is anything good happening with you, no one even bothers to peek in your life; but when you are in a difficult phase, people from nowhere come up "asking you and criticizing you...." How easy it is for people to come up and say u have failed or u have wasted your time...its so annoying when u although more are low and all that some people do is demoralize you" how lame....can people be?????

Anyways the point is to turn a deaf ear to such people which I did too...when I know I have the potential I have the right attitude, I don’t need anybody's gyaan on what I should do or what I should have done?" Another thing which I learnt this week was, Why should I change for anyone, b'coz me changing and transforming myself is just not going to make sense I agree that at some point u need to change but Why unnecessarily change for no good or for someone who doesn’t even bother. I just realized it’s more fun being me, the way I am, my beliefs and my hatke life……WHY do I even bother I want to live my carefree, confused & complex life, I don’t want to be MS PERFECT.. Am a human and I love to make mistakes and learn from my mistakes…that’s the way I am and that’s the way I want to be……A gal..With all the complexities of life but still want to face it with all pride and the right attitude.
So before signing off …just a radom thought :
Never cHangE yoUr originaLiTy for The sakE of oThers becaUse no onE can pLay yoUr roLe beTTer Than U, sO bE yoUrseLf.
(by Rahul Nair……a new frdn)

So frdnzzzzz…enjoy your summer vacations & keep reading adeus!!!!

Rendezvous’

Hiiiiii all!!!

I think I have become an addict to my blog coz I feel I need 2 write everyday…anyways lets get back ,Today will be writing about a rendezvous with a great person..........

Any guesses who???? Okk let’s cut out the suspense, the entire day today I had a Rendezvous with none other then the Father of the Nation “MAHATMA GANDHI”.....

Not that am a massive fan of his or anything of that sort it’s just that I have an entire subject for my master’s exam on Gandhi..Personally talking am not at all a Gandhian person, but there’s something striking about the person..Frankly speaking am a complete supporter of Tilak and his ways , but somehow am quite surprised about Gandhi being a man who’s simple in thought an expression is responsible for making our country independent ,his concepts and funda’s were different from all , but what makes me think is that had he been alive today am sure he would be applaud at the scenario India’s facing right from reservation to communalism to regionalism to terrorism to IPL he would have just wondered and said I strived to get this country independent my efforts were in vain??

Really it just gets me thinking how many of us would go the Gandhian way to get things how many of us still believe in truth and non violence. Gawd had it Gandhi been alive and seen me and my non violence he would have really changed his concepts (hehehe ) ,but jokes apart the man had guts he had guts to do everything in his way to get the country free, to bring about the upliftment of the society and people at large. Again do we even really appreciate? What‘s with us today’s Gen X, has a different attitude all linked up with the corporate world? Frankly how many of us would carry out a Satyagraha for some injustice done to us or anyone else? How many of us would want to wear khadi or carry out spinning as our profession?? Sound’s impossible doesn’t it? But it was Gandhi who did the impossible..Gandhi though born in a traditional Vaishnav family, man with great modern thoughts, believer in Satya N Ahimsa, communal harmony?? My my how did he just do it.. Now I really need to learn the perseverance he had…actually we all need too..Isn’t it? He had this hatke view of almost everything from Hindu –Muslim unity to untouchability wow!!! Hardly anyone of us could have this kind of point of view?

But then I think, somewhere down the lane we have let him down, for all that we think we do, actually there are hardly people who follow him and his concepts and believe in his philosophy ,may be because its not possible with the situation around us. But why don’t we try making a difference in small ways ………..may be we can all begin with a small start…y don't we start with family n friends itself???
i think now my family n friends are going to see some changes in me in small ways..

plzzzz gharwalo n dosto dunn be surprised by the change….it’s still the same devilish meeee…..

It’s time to go….before going something which Gandhi said in regard to communal harmony; he says
“ to restore normal life the least one can do is be wholly truthful & non-violent. Then one will fear no one but God. Such are the men of courage. All parties will make friends with them and even goondas will shed their goondaism before them”….

Impressive isn’t it!!! So see u all next time with something new….till then.............. Auf Wiedersehen!!

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

hellooooooooooooooo people........
Hope we all are in pink of health...writing my second post..gawd its hard 2 decide what to write about..so many thoughts just like a MIXED BAG!!

A day or two before I happened to meet a schoolmate after ages who somehow did not acknowledge i thought to myself its “OK it happens” later again that very day i met another schoolmate (who also happened to be my bench partner) who from nowhere shouted out my name and then we started talking the regular stuff,suddenly she turned down the memory lane and surprised me by remembering all the school fun we had right from how we sat together to all my nakharas in school...she also says " i have changed" that really made me think hard "have I changed"???? and "have I changed for good or Bad"?? but then i got the answer and said to myself that whatever happens, happens for good! certain responses from friends does gets my mind ticking must say..

Lets switch the topic lets talk about friends..i have always heard that friends are the angels God has sent for us...sounds interesting doesn’t it? in this context have to say that am a huge fan of this HBO series named "SEX n THE CITY"...the series is just about 4 friends living in the city of New York with all the dazzling lights, fun, love, fashion, and promiscuity all of them with a different stories but friends forever, this to me is an inspiration of friends. Friends: very few of them stick around to the end . It just randomly came to me that its actually not about who came first or who came last its actually about who stuck up with you till the end… our life itself makes us understand the fact that who are our real friends! Are they the one’ s who royally flatter u away and just make use of you or are they the one who there for u all along even when u have a terrible bitter fight with them??? Something to think about? In regard to this it just dawned upon that friends are those people who stand by you in all circumstances, they are those who always tell you “YOU CAN DO IT” I’m very glad that I have a few special friends who are there for me whenever needed just a beck and call and they are there, they have been my greatest critics and my greatest teacher in all walks of life be it professional or personal.

In this context a very special mention which I needed to make and which most of u will agree upon is that one of our very dear n closest friends are “ our Parents” be it anything they are always there right from the beginning to the end. So I think we need to ponder upon have we ever appreciated our parents for being our best friends in spite of the fact that we don’t consider them to be one but the fact is they are????

So keeping that thought in mind & I need to get back with books!!!
Would want to conclude with few lines of the song “I’ll be there for you”
I'll be there for you
When the rain starts to pour
I'll be there for you
Like I've been there before
I'll be there for you
'Cuz you're there for me too... :-)
So keep reading n keep thinking!!!!! Ciao

thinking me

hii all !!
A new addition to the blogger zone n that's me lavita. fondly known as lavi n chubby.. for writing a blog was something which I imagined I'd never do?? but still its worth a try?

Was in deep thoughts so as to what do i write in my first post, so i decided to start writing about myself.talking about myself leads me to a question that why is it difficult to write about ourselves? our we scared to know ourselves better?? or our we scared to judge or analyze ourselves??? never thought about it.anyways back 2 my topic about myself..can say a young lady heading on to lead a carefree life,confused about certain aspects of life,have wonderful parents (mwah mwah), adorable friends & also inclusive of Mr.Special who can never be mine(fingers crossed)apart from the fairy tail part life has been pretty generous on me from being a complete pampered brat to dadda's little girl and now into a young lady holding her breath as life's playing its game.But still what the heck its a wonderful life???

Trying to analyze my self i find myself pretty confident,bold,a full on nautanki,a friend for a friend and a foe for a foe..i have always believed in myself my instincts and intuitions for me as Gandhi says "truth always triumphs"..
always believed in the fact that hard work pays off and pays off well
One thing which struck me through is that "every day of our life's we learn a lesson" its just up to us to grasp it or not. Recently a prof.of mine just gave us a concept on life "she plainly said why you all worried about life if you think there's a problem and you give up finding a solution just chill and face the problem when its right in front of you and that moment just give it your best shot don't spend time thinking over and over it" this concept just clicked and so its implemented and guess what i have implemented it to my upcoming Master's exams..which is just 5 days to go and am still a blank page with confused thoughts hovering all over my mind. must say my Prof.had a fab funda of life which is proving to be very very useful..so with a Chak de phatte attitude i'm gonna face my upcoming Master's exams and all exams of life. and I'm hoping to succeed in all avenues of life after all "Hope is the highest kite one can fly"(courtesy a frdn)
So this was a little something of the random thoughts in my mind just to end up with a quote:
LiFe IsNt EaSy It GiVzZ u AlL pOsSiBlE tROuBlEs ... BuT dOnT GiVe Up .... FiGhT iT & DeFeAT LiFe ... & LiVe HaPpIlY & SuCcEsSfUlLy :$ ♥ ♥
by Amanda Dourado (my chweet lil cuzn)

so folks !!! that's all for now, will be back with sum more confusing thoughts.
(p.s: please excuse my flaws coz am somehow a novice to the world of blogging and writing.just penning down my random thoughts hope u find it interesting)